At some stages of the process, generally when you’ve just learned something new, you feel on top of the world and very confident.
Other times, often when you get surprised by some unexpected grammar rule, you feel like it’s impossible and want to give up.
Most of the time when you feel like throwing in the towel (giving up – boxing term) it’s because you are confronted with something that you don’t understand. All of these things you don’t understand can be easily cleared up (clarified) if you can calm down, take a deep breath and try to open your mind to a new way of understanding the problem.
In this article I’m going to simplify one of these common “lows” that make all of my students feel very overwhelmed, and lose motivation to learn when I approach this subject.
It’s time to pick up that towel and start boxing the shit out of English!
What the hell are verb patterns?
In English we have many rules when it comes to using two verbs together in the same phrase. Verb patterns are the way you are going to use the second verb when it is dependent on the first verb. For example:
I like drinking green tea after dinner or I like to drink green tea after dinner
In this example you’ll see that in one of them I am using the “ing form” and in the other I’m using the “to infinitive.” In this example both forms are correct and both forms mean the exact same thing.
What’s so difficult about that???
Sure, it seems quite easy so far, but the verb “like” is an example of a verb that can be used with either form and the meaning doesn’t change. If I was to change the first verb from “like” and use the verb “stop,” this same rule, or pattern, would not be the same and the meaning would change. For example:
I stopped drinking water when exercising or I stopped to drink water when exercising
In this example, both phrases are correct but they have different meanings. In the first, I have stopped the activity of “drinking water,” and in the second, I have stopped what I was doing (exercising) to drink water.
So, now you can see that depending on the first verb that I use, I have to know what form I will use with the verb that follows.
Now let’s take a look at all the possibilities.
Verbs that are always followed by the ING (gerund)
Now that we know that these rules exist, let’s categorize them and explore all of our options when making verb patterns.
The first category is we are going to look at are all the verbs that are followed by the second verb being in the “ing form.” The first verb can be conjugated however you like, as long as the second verb is in the ing form.
Miss- I miss playing guitar on the weekend
Apprectiate- I appreciated playing the guitar on the weekend
Practice- I’m going to practice playing the guitar on the weekend
Consider- I have considered playing the guitar on the weekend
Admit- I admitted playing the guitar on the weekend
Cant’stand- I can’t stand playing the guitar on the weekend
As you can see, all of these verbs when followed by another verb, independent of how you conjugate them, will always have the “ing” conjugation in the second verb.
Verbs that are always followed by the (to) infinitive
As you saw above, verbs always followed with the ing form, we also have verbs that are always followed by the (to) infinitive.
Demand- I demanded to pay the bill
Offer- I’m going to offer to pay the bill
Wait- I was waiting to pay the bill
Decide- I have decided to pay the bill
Hope- I hope to pay the bill (I have never said this)
Plan- I didn’t plan to pay the bill
As you can see, these verbs will always be followed by a verb in the (to) infinitive form. Just like the verbs followed by ing, it doesn’t matter how we conjugate the first verb as long as you follow the pattern of that first verb, whether it’s the “ing form” or the “(to) infinitive.”
Some verbs can be used with both form and it doesn’t change meaning. Some of these verbs include:
Like- I like to eat / I like eating
Continue- I continued to eat / I continued eating
Start- I started to eat / I started eating
And like I showed you with the verb “stop,” some verbs can use both pattern but the meaning changes. For example:
Remember- I remembered to lock the door (I didn’t forget)
– I remember locking the door (I have that memory in my mind)
Forget- I forgot to lock the door (I didn’t remember)
– I forget telling you to lock the door (I don’t have that memory)
Try- I tried to tell you what happened (a failed attempt at something)
– Have you tried telling her (a suggested way fix a problem)
These ones tend to be the most difficult to understand, but it’s very important not to get too stressed out about memorizing all of them because this is something that tends to happen naturally with the more exposure to English you have.
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