What is the BEST TV Series for Learning English?

[Note: this article is based off of a few academic studies. I’ve done my best to summarize the findings, but if you want to learn more, just click the appropriate links]

We all know that learning English with TV shows is a fun and motivational way to develop our listening, pronunciation, and fluency.

But many students have asked me, "Which TV show should I learn with?"

Does it matter? Are some series more conducive to learning than others?

The answer is YES, and although there are HUNDREDS of English-language TV shows that you can enjoy and learn with, ONE is still the best, even with more than 10 years since it first aired.

The sitcom1 Friends in particular has been the subject of various academic studies and articles, focusing on both the cultural and linguistic impact.

This may come as no surprise. On more occasions than you would believe, I’ve met people who have excellent English, superb2 pronunciation, and have never lived or even visited a country where the language is spoken. Again and again, when I asked how they got such great English, a contributing factor has been watching the entire series of Friends.

Just the other day, I even met a girl here in Barcelona who said she had gotten fluent in Italian by watching the dubbed3 version of the series!

At first, I thought it was a strange coincidence. It’s just a TV series, right? Why would this one series be a tool for success for so many?

Some more research revealed to me why Friends, even more than 10 years after it went off the air4, can still be considered one of the best TV series for learning English.

In this article, I’ll summarize this research into three principle reasons:

  1. The Perfect Concept
  2. It's the perfect series for grammar, linguistics, and wordplay
  3. Cultural Influence

Before we jump into the 3 reasons, and a lot of academic research, we invite you to dive deeper into WHY we chose to build Fluent with Friends.

As you'll have discovered in the above video, plenty of famous people have learned phenomenal English from Friends including 2023 Oscar-winning actress, Ana de Armas. Watch her talk about her experience with Friends in this short Saturday Night Live Clip.

Friends Has the Perfect Concept for Learning

First, it’s worth noting that Friends is a sitcom, which, in general, shows the everyday life of the characters, making humor that perhaps relates to our own lives.

Sitcoms are better than dramas and other genres for learning because they portray scenarios in which you probably find yourself every day, and therefor are composed of vocabulary that will be most useful for you in reaching conversational fluency.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t learn a lot with a drama like Game of Thrones or Breaking Bad, but the vocabulary you obtain will rarely be useful. So if you’re not already an advanced English speaker, I’d recommend you start by watching English sitcoms.

Friends rises5 to the top of sitcoms because you can surely relate to at least one of the characters.

Friends is a show about people who sit around and talk, as all of us do with friends and family, and linguistically this has helped make it a very similar example of natural conversation in real life.

The show’s relatability is also part of the reason why it’s had an influence on English language and grammar.

Friends' Linguistic and Grammatical Influence

Americans watch around 35-40 hours of TV per week (almost as much as they work!), so it’s pretty natural that it can affect the language.

Friends may have begun in 1994, but the language is still very relevant. In fact, it has helped shape how English is spoken nowadays in some apparent (and not so apparent)ways.

Grammatical Influence

This show has influenced the way Americans speak English, including the grammar.

One example is with a study on the use of intensifiers. Conventionally speaking, “very” and “really” are considered the most common, correct and proper intensifiers. I'm sure you learned this at school.

However, in part through Friends’ influence, “so” became one of the most common intensifiers in the English language. This is affirmed by a University of Toronto study that identified “so” as the most common intensifier within the Friends’ scripts, comparing it to North American English before and after the show.

Example: You are so wearing that; that is so not true; that is so not what this is

Another instance of this is with the word “totally.” You probably know the meaning, which is whole or complete. In the 90s this word was starting to be used to show strong agreement, Friends helped to take a growing trend and make it mainstream.

Paulo Quaglio, a linguistics professor at State University of New York, found that "innovative uses of ‘totally’ in American English conversation were fully captured in the Friends corpus.”

Example: This restaurant is totally the best in the city! A: Are you coming over later? B: Totally!

Both "so" and "totally" are still commonly used in American (and British) English today.

Linguistic Influence

In another study by Quaglio, comparing Friends' script versus face-to-face conversation, Friends scored just one point lower in grammatical context than face-to-face conversation (34 vs. 35). To give you more context, most academic and formal materials fall between -15 and 10.

Therefore, Friends is an excellent example of how to observe grammatical use in real life, presenting a large variety of grammatical structures in use.  (Quaglio p. 197, Corpora and Discourse).

In his study, Quaglio deduced that, “…numerous examples of features that characterize natural conversation can be illustrated with a television show such as Friends,” and“[Friends] shares the core linguistic features of conversation…  the language of Friends, overall, is a fairly accurate representation of face-to-face conversation.” (Quaglio p. 208, Corpora and Discourse).

Quaglio also touches on another important point for English learners, “Friends has numerous adequate6 examples of vague language for ESL purposes.” (Quaglio p. 149, Television Dialogue)

Vague language is very common in native speech. It is used to speak informally in a friendly way, or when you are not sure of details or are trying to save time in conversation.

Word play

The final aspect of linguistic influence that makes Friends the best TV series to learn English is the immense amount and quality of the word play and jokes. When we, as learners, slow down to digest the humor and connect the dots, we learn new expressions. For example, in this joke, which is one of MANY, the attentive or proactive learner can learn the expression "Pick a lane" through Joey's slap stick response of "pick Elaine."

To wrap up7 this subject, it’s worth noting that some of Friends’ language, e.g. quotes and catchphrases8, have penetrated English, and are still used today. But we’ll discuss that more in the next section.

Friends’ Cultural Influence

Some aspects of how Friends influenced American culture can still be seen today. And it’s not just in the U.S.A., it was so popular in the United Kingdom, according to the Telegraph, it’s even had effects on British culture.

Lines from Friends used in English

Probably the most famous line from Friends is the character Joey’s “How you doin’?”

Joey used this as a pickup line: Something said to open up conversation with the opposite sex when flirting. This collocation introduced to the masses by Friends is still used today, either when flirting, or more likely, to informally greet a friend. Watch this compilation of this catchphrase being used throughout the show:

Other less common lines from the show might still be heard used between Friends fans, for example, “He’s her lobster” and others in this poster.

Some Friends Catchphrases

Other Cultural Influences

‘The Rachel’

The famous haircut worn by Jennifer Anniston during part of the series, had viral success in the U.S. and abroad, and was so closely tied to the show that it is still named after Anniston’s character, Rachel.

The Central Perk

The café where the TV show’s characters always spend time, the Central Perk9 (a play on words with New York’s famous park), has actually materialized in the real world. You can find copycat10 cafes in various cities around the world that mimic the original café’s furniture and more. This video shows an example in NYC, and also portrays the prominent popularity of Friends in the US still 20 years later:


Finally, Friends was important at the time (and is still relevant) because it challenges societal taboos, for example: Being divorced, being single over a large period of time, and casually dating various people.

Now before concluding this article, I want to touch on what Friends lacks to make it a perfect English learning resource.

What’s Still Missing?

It is impressive how close Friends’ comes to face-to-face conversation, however it’s not perfect. Quaglio points out that, as with any show, it is rare to find overlap and interruptions in discussion, which is common in natural conversation. This can also create a challenge for non-native speakers to understand group conversation in real life.

However, you will get practice with this when you actually start speaking. Shows like Friends provide a tremendous11 base for your English listening skills, far beyond what you learned in school.

How to Learn Best

Although you can learn just watching TV shows, if you want to use them to really gain fluency, consider using some techniques to make your learning powerful and effective. There are some great recommendations in this video.

If you don’t have a lot of time to dedicate to these sorts of techniques, we’ve helped make it easier with our course Fluent with Friends. To get a free taste of the course, check out some of our best, free lessons on Learn English with TV Series on YouTube.

Until next time, be sure to let us know if you have any questions down below!

  • Birgit says:

    Hi, Birgit from Germany here. Thanks for your mail. I worked with your Fluent with Friends course and I finished the Native Immersion course. I learned a lot, like expressions, connected speech and vocabulary. I consider my listening skills as pretty good. ( is* as* here correct to use?) OR should I say: I consider my listening skills pretty good? That leads me to my question or concerns 😉 Even though I learned a lot, there’s still something missing. Speaking practice and getting feedback!!! I’m sure I talked about that in one of your surveys. I have been to the US for 3 weeks last year ( OMG it was soooooo exciting) I was able to have great conversations. My friend from Orlando helped me a lot ( I asked him to be picky about my pronunciation and my sentence structure) I think we have to USE the language because I still make mistakes- even though I know how to say it correctly.During conversations ,my knowledge tends to vanish 😉
    What happens next? After the Immersion course? The Fluency circle ( facebook) still needs a little bit more vividness. I would love us to post( is that even a sentence?) videos there and get feedback about our pronunciation ,word order and so on. How can we practice more? You know, language partners really don’t wonna correct you.
    How can I get more podcasts from you, guys?
    Thanks for being part of my life.
    I so ( haha- from Friends) appreciate an/your answer 😉
    All the best!

    • Justin says:

      Hey Birgit, thanks for your feedback, and it’s wonderful that you took such great advantage of the course. As for your speaking, yeah it’s really important to USE your English and open your mouth for sure. That’s why we’re building the Speaking Platform! As far as the liveliness of the Fluency Circle Community, I really recommend that you join the WhatsApp group because if you got to know what’s happening there you’d realize it’s a pretty LIVELY and VIVID place of global connection. AND if you’re in the group you’ll have the opportunity to speak and use your English! So what happens next? You gotta start living it, and doing that with real people in the real world, so I would recommend for you to join the Fluency Circle WHATSAPP GROUP! Thanks for your comments and feedback!

  • Marco says:

    Hi everyone, I’m Marco from Italy. I have started the fluent with friends course the last summer, and I totally agree on the fact that it’s one of the best series to become fluent and learn everyday English. Moreover, as Justin said, the WhatsApp group is a game changer cause it gives me the possibility to stay connected 24/7 with the best community of English learners !

  • Betty says:

    Yea, I agree with you! You know, in my country, some of high school teachers choose Friends as extra materials to train their students’ listening! That’s the reason I bought the FwF course without hesitation! I had been dying to understand this TV series for a long long time, and you guys really went above and beyond with this course!! I learned a lot of slang, connected speech, and American cultures from it!

    • Sergi says:

      Hi betty and all people,
      I just want more english so I would speak other days with you. I would like use face-time or skype for improve my language skills. If someone who want to practice with me, please contact here.
      Thank so much

  • Srdjan Stefanovic says:

    Hi guys from REAL LIFE ENGLISH! Well done for your job and help many people! (y)
    I’ve followed you recently on YouTube! I like it!
    Could you help me, please?
    I’d try to watch a Friends to can improve my English really, but how to watch it- with or without subtitles?
    Every time as I want to watch without subtitle I fear I can’t understand it… If you can to help me…?
    I’ve learned English from primary school but I have the feeling I can speak English in the conversational way after many times… Now I’m 26 years old…It’s late for me?
    And the most important stuff, from February I’m going to start to work on the cruiser, it’s a new experience for me, I don’t know what can I expect, and I have huge stage fright about my English as well…

    • Justin says:

      Hey Srdjan, Thanks for your nice words. It’s not too late for you, and there’s no reason to be afraid. For advice about that, read this article: https://reallifeglobal.com/7-things-not-to-do-when-speaking-english/

      About the subtitles. This is from our Power Learning Method Guide that offers instructions for students:

      When considering whether or not to use English Subtitles for the first time you watch, ask yourself what percentage of the dialogue you understand without subtitles. Are you able to understand the general idea without subtitles?

      Remember, subtitles are “a crutch” (artificial support mechanism), and the sooner you are able to stay engaged without subtitles, the closer to our goal of understanding natives without subtitles you are. But if that’s particularly hard at this point, don’t feel bad starting the course with English subtitles until your listening improves enough to remove them.

      If you’ve tried to watch the scene the first time with English subtitles and feel like you’re close to understanding the general idea, keep going. But, if you feel completely lost, you may choose a different strategy: instead of watching with English subtitles to start with, watch the entireepisode with subtitles in your native language.

      This will give you the context you need to go through the most crucial steps of the Power Learning Method, which will help you build your English understanding of the episode scene by scene, as our method instructs: First by reading and studying the PDF Power Lesson, Then by watching with English subtitles, frequently stopping, going back, and referencing the Power Lesson. Repeating until you’ve learned the material well.

      Note: If you want take it to the next level with your listening, add the extra step of
      removing the subtitles and repeating this step.

      Once you feel comfortable with the scene, watch it again, with and/ or without subtitles. Because you lack the vocabulary and/ or reading ability to understand English subtitles the first time you watch it, it’s going to require more work for you to build both your reading and listening comprehension together. If you persist, however, you will see dramatic improvements in both of these skills over the coming weeks and month.

  • Sozler says:

    If some people are asking question which is “What is the BEST TV Series for Learning English?”, i am saying “friends”. Friends serie is one of the most important series for learning English. I am watching it. It is wonderful. While i am watching it, i am being happy and enjoy.

  • Amy says:

    After reading this post I`m going to rewatch Friends. Best TV series ever!

    • Justin says:

      Aww yeah, Amy, let us know how it goes!

  • Areeya says:

    I like it a lot.

  • Gamal says:

    Hi, thank you for your effort and I would like to suggest you set up groups everywhere who wish to strengthen their English with dialogue and recurrent meetings

  • Abdu says:

    How can I pay the fees by month or by year

    • Justin says:

      There’s a monthly payment option on the Sales Page. If you’re still having trouble, please write us at [email protected]

  • Ambitious says:

    I have just joined the Fluent with friends and hoping to learn a lot. I need to build my confidence in speaking and stop translating from my head. I just want to speak fluently without even thinking.

  • Mohamad says:


  • Afonso says:

    I don’t have much to say, but Iam excited to learn new lessons from this online course.

    • Agnieszka from RealLife English says:

      Aww yeah! We are excited that you are with us, Alfonso!