#356: Why Speaking English is HARD For You – But EASY for Others, What Story Are You Telling Yourself, and Learning How Successful Learners Actually Think

Do you ever feel like English seems so easy for other people but really difficult for you? You’re not alone. Believe it or not, many learners feel the same. But here’s what you need to know: There’s a way to fix that, and the answer lies inside you. In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of cultivating a growth mindset when learning English and how your self-talk determines your success with the language.

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Words You’ll Learn in the App

  • Brother from another mother
  • Double-edged sword
  • Be the case
  • Come across
  • In retrospect
  • Turn things around
  • Have a knack for
  • Give someone kudos
  • A bump on a log
  • Self-sabotage

And many more in the app.

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  • Payman Ahmady says:

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    • Agnieszka from RealLife English says:

      Thank you very much for such nice message, Payman. It means a lot to us!

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    How can i register on your app? I received error when i try to register with Email.

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  • Sara saad says:

    I’ve always had a really hard time learning the English language, especially speaking it. Until some study materials related to dialogue in the English language helped me and I improved greatly

    • Agnieszka from RealLife English says:

      That’s the key – find a way that works for you best! Great, Sara!